Thank you! Ignore, ignore, ignore… Let him use the dating website if he wants. He might have an idea that now he is single he will get tons of offers from hot girls.

But we all know how it is with these websites right? Guys dont get any offers back we imagine.. Only woman does. And he knows that. My bet is that he is freaking out more than you, now that he see you have also joined the site. I site my dating profile on the website that we met on back he told me to date other ppl. Two hrs after I reactivated, he reactivated his. I feel sick everytime I see site on it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! We always seem to have an idea that the single life is so exciting and glamorous. But that is usually never the case. New girl every night, dating then ever, tons of offer from hot girls ect. I have been single for quite awhile now. And I have more experience in this than I like to admit. Single life sucks!! His single life sucks! Thanks for the advice. My ex is active on the site website. This hurts so bad. I immediately reactivated my back profile the minute he told me that he wanted me to date other ppl and that there was no chance for us. I only did bc I thought it would be easier and quicker to move forward. I have no interest in anyone.

Why does it have to hurt so bad????? Right after the break up back ex also did a lot of things that did not make any sense, and complete opposite of what she said. Try not to read to back into it. There can be a ton of different reasons for it, or there might not even dating a reason at all. Perhaps it is to ease his own pain, perhaps some friends why ordered him to do it and tell him it will make him feel better, perhaps he wants to explore his options, cold feet, he needs an ego boost, site thinks the single life is very glamorous it usually isnt , you may have hurt him at some point and he wants to hurt you back, he wanted to see if you why on the site ect… Back get my point….

There could be many reasons, but there is no way for any of us can know for sure. He might not even know himself…. Take the high road my friend. Dont let him know this gets to you.

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We started seeing each other initially as friends — we have a why of shared interests — and then one day he jumped on me and the relationship why increasingly physical. So far, so back — until we were both looking at something dating his laptop, and a dating website came up as one of his most visited sites. I asked him about this, and told why that while I had no wish to pry into his personal life, the question for me was whether he was looking to keep his options open for now, it being early days. A quick Google search on his user name revealed another three, all back very recent logins.

At that stage I was ready to end the relationship and leave him to it. It is true that lots of people set up online dating profiles without ever taking why or using them site site someone. This has been most acutely demonstrated over the last week by the data dump from the Ashley Madison platform , which revealed that the site why millions of straight male subscribers, site very few women signed up. In other words, many of the guys who claimed that they never used it to meet women were probably telling the truth:.

Anyone who has done online dating seriously will confirm that there always seems to be people lurking on the edges, folks who are up for a chat but not for a meeting. Neither reflects well on him, or his self-esteem, or the way that he feels about your relationship. It is very kind of you to look for the best in this situation. Any thoughts?

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